Kim  Grevler

Kim Grevler

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW Life coach
New York Not Accepting Online
Updated March 4, 2021

Specialties & Expertise

  • Life, relationship coaching
  • Career coaching
  • Self-esteem
  • Self-doubt
  • Healthy boundaries
  • Women's mental health

Professional statement

Kim Grevler is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and practices as a life coach. Kim started her business, selfishladies, in 2016 where she specializes in helping women meet their career, relationship, and personal goals by learning how to put their needs first. Kim takes private clients, publishes articles on her blog, and runs her active instagram page as she cultivates her selfishladies movement, to teach women how to rid their anxiety by being selfish. She sees clients who may outwardly appear to be successful, driven women, but on the inside, struggle to feel fulfilled, set healthy boundaries, and overcome feelings of low self-importance. Women come to Kim when they are feeling stuck in one or more areas of their life and are ready to proactively work towards developing a stronger sense of self.

Kim offers life, relationship, and career coaching to unlock challenges related to stress, guilt, and overwhelm. She works collaboratively with each client to understand and rewrite the stories they tell about themselves, build sustainable self-care practices, and find greater meaning in relationships and at work.

Kim's goal is to help women learn to live more presently and move with confidence into the future. In addition to being a life coach, Kim was originally educated and trained as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and utilizes her background as a therapist to best support her clients as well. She offers the convenience of remote video and phone sessions for busy professionals across the country.

Message to clients

I work with the everyday woman who is self doubting and uncomfortable to move forward by being, well... selfish. You might be experiencing self-doubt, anxiety at work or in your relationships, difficulty finding happiness and satisfaction, and more. Perhaps you compare yourself to others and feel the emotional effects of our 'open-book' lifestyle on social media. You have goals and you are afraid to try accomplish them. You may have interpersonal conflicts that leave your feeling stuck, misunderstood or taken advantage of.

You have trouble saying no. You tolerate inappropriate behavior from others. You blame yourself for other people's inappropriate behavior towards you. You take on responsibility for other people's issues and find yourself putting forth your time and energy when it is not beneficial to you nor reciprocated. You are motivated to make a change.


Life, relationship coaching - Giving you the tools and techniques to achieve a balanced and fulfilling life while minimizing your anxiety and self-doubt; addressing issues related to conflict management; addressing and assessing your needs and how you carry yourself in your relationships; advocating for what you need and want; addressing self-worth, how you speak with yourself, and how you treat yourself

Career coaching - Addressing dissatisfaction in your current position; feeling like you are constantly meeting other people's needs or expectations and not getting anything in return; addressing some tension or conflict with colleagues and helping you address these relationships; exploring your needs in the context of your career; addressing issues that prevent you from moving forward

Self-esteem - Cultivating self-compassion, assertiveness, and confidence; developing ways to reduce suffering, anxiety, social withdrawal, and self-neglect

Self-doubt - Finding strength in one's own skills and abilities; overcoming inner voices of negativity and disbelief

Healthy boundaries - Saying yes when you really want to say no; accommodating and tolerating; doing what you think you "should" or "ought" to do rather than what you want and need to do for yourself; addressing this pattern and how to change this pattern by setting boundaries so that you meet your own needs before meeting others

Women's mental health - Finding and amplifying your voice; cultivating healthy boundaries and healthy relationships; navigating work-life balance and workplace power issues; navigating professional and life transitions; navigating cultural pressures; finding a sense of empowerment


  • Adults (24+)


Kim Grevler is not in-network with any insurances.

Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Ongoing sessions: $115 (45min)
  • One month of texting + 1 live session: $200 (45min)
  • One month (4 sessions): $450 (45min)
  • 1 session related to Covid-anxiety: $50 (30min)


Online Sessions (New York)
Not accepting new clients online
Currently Available Times
  • Morning (Before 10am)
  • Daytime (10am - 1pm)
  • Afternoon (1pm - 5pm)
  • Evening (After 5pm)
  • Weekends
Regular Hours
  • Mon 9:00am-6:00pm
  • Tue 9:00am-6:00pm
  • Wed 9:00am-6:00pm
  • Thu 9:00am-6:00pm
  • Fri 9:00am-6:00pm
  • Sat Closed
  • Sun Closed

Work and Education

Private Practice, 2016 - Present
Kings County Hospital, Adult Inpatient Therapist, 2013 - 2016
Child Welfare, 2011 - 2013

University of Texas, MSSW, 2011