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David Goldfinger(He/Him/His)

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Psychologist, PhD
Massachusetts
Anxiety - Couples counseling- Depression- Existential crisis & challenges- Life transitions- Relationship issues-

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Professional statement

Dr. David Goldfinger is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist in Cambridge who specializes in couples therapy. He has more than 25 years of experience in helping clients work through emotional difficulties, cultivate self-awareness, deepen relationships, and live with a greater sense of ease, authenticity, and personal freedom.

David’s approach to psychotherapy, grounded in attachment theory and psychodynamic principles, assumes that our way of experiencing ourselves and the world around us is shaped by our earliest relationships. It is in our families of origin that we develop implicit ideas about who we are, what we can expect from others, and how relationships work. These ideas, while initially adaptive, outlive their usefulness if they are not flexible enough to respond to new situations and opportunities that life presents. In the context of a warm, empathic relationship, David helps his clients develop curiosity about their ways of moving through the world, examining habitual patterns of thought, feeling, and behavior to open up new possibilities and choices.

David received his doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the University of Michigan, and did his postdoctoral training at the MIT Mental Services and Two Brattle Center. He completed a two-year couples therapy training at the Psychodynamic Couple and Family Institute of New England, where he is now on the board and faculty, serving as the Director of Education. David has also been a clinical instructor for Harvard Medical School and a training instructor and regular speaker at the Northeastern Society for Group Psychotherapy.


Message to clients

I begin with the belief that we all have a lifelong need to feel seen, recognized, and appreciated for the unique persons we are, even as we strive to make changes in ourselves and our lives. It is in relationships where we feel truly “gotten” that we can allow ourselves to be authentic and vulnerable enough to grow. In my work with individuals, I seek to provide this kind of relationship through attuned, empathic listening and collaborative exploration. In my work with couples, I additionally help partners to provide this care and recognition to one another, as doing so inevitably leads to a softening of conflict and a deeper understanding of underlying feelings, meanings, and needs.

I enjoy working with a broad range of clients, including those from diverse racial, class, and ethnic backgrounds and people of all genders and sexual orientations.


Licensure

Massachusetts: 7706

Languages

English

Specialties

Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)

Couples counseling - Addressing relationship challenges and life transitions; strengthening communication and feelings of security, desire, connection, and love

Depression - Providing support and promoting healing of hopelessness, low motivation and energy, sadness, irritability, sleep disturbance, and loss of interest and pleasure in life

Existential crisis & challenges - Supportive exploration of meaning and purpose in one’s life; finding one’s path in the face of existential anxiety, dread, and feelings of meaninglessness

Life transitions - Coping with difficult or impactful life changes, such as moving to a new area, relationship transitions, child rearing, or career changes; learning self-care to better manage resulting stress

Relationship issues - Understanding one’s wants and needs in relationships; exploring patterns of interaction, addressing concerns, and strengthening satisfaction in relationships and dating




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples
  • Families
  • Parents
  • Seniors (65+)
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours


Insurance

David Goldfinger is not in-network with any insurances.

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Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$300 (45min)
  • Couples sessions:$330 (50min)
  • Group sessions:$60 (69min)
  • Family sessions:$330 (50min)

Therapy Groups

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Interpersonal Psychotherapy Group

This group is designed to help individuals learn about their relational difficulties by exploring here-and-now interactions in a safe, confidential setting. Members are encouraged to communicate openly and honestly and to accept feedback from one another.


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