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Debbie Oberlander(She/Her/Hers)

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
New JerseyConnecticutNew YorkRhode Island
Anxiety - Couples counseling- Depression-Infertility counseling- Loss, grief, and bereavement- Stress management-

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Professional statement

Debbie Oberlander is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New Jersey, working with couples and individuals. Debbie's clinical approach integrates evidence-based modalities including cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy (insight-oriented), and solution-focused therapy. She provides short-term and long-term therapy, based on client needs.

Debbie is as caring as she is skilled. Clients often remark that they feel her caring, compassion, and patience as truly genuine.

Debbie has expertise in Infertility and family building through IVF. It is her great joy to see clients fulfill their dream of having children.

Beyond her clinical expertise, Debbie brings warmth and a respectful sense of humor to her sessions.

Debbie has an office in Teaneck, NJ, but also sees patients remotely. She also provides teletherapy to patients in Connecticut, New York, and Rhode Island.

Message to clients

Prior to this profession, Debbie had fulfilling careers as a teacher, and then a nutritionist. It is her nature to be a “helper” and felt she could have the greatest impact as a therapist. Debbie is motivated by the success of her clients, and after almost twenty years in practice, she still feels privileged to engage in such meaningful work.

Work and Education

Wurzweiler School of Social Work, MSW, 2003
Columbia University - Nutrition, MS, 1988


New York: 080725 - New Jersey: 44SC05850200 - Connecticut: 7509 - Rhode Island: ISW02914




Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)

Couples counseling - Addressing relationship challenges and life transitions; strengthening communication and feelings of security, desire, connection, and love

Depression - Providing support and promoting healing of hopelessness, low motivation and energy, sadness, irritability, sleep disturbance, and loss of interest and pleasure in life

Infertility counseling - Understanding infertility interventions and solutions; support during decision-making processes; coping with fertility problems and pregnancy loss

Loss, grief, and bereavement - Emotionally preparing for the anticipated passing of a loved one; managing feelings and reactions to a death or loss of significance; support during the process of healing and acceptance

Stress management - Strengthening effective ways of coping with the stress of life and change; managing expectations of self and others


  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples
  • Seniors (65+)
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours


  • Aetna
  • Oxford Health Plans
  • United Healthcare

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$150 (45min)
  • Initial session:$150 (45min)
  • Couples sessions:$150 (37min)

Additional session information

Out-of-network billing options

This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

  • Super billing
Payment options
  • Credit Card
  • Zelle

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The practice will call you for a free 10min phone call to discuss your needs and ensure a match!

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