Jacquelyn Michelle Matotek
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Jacquelyn Michelle Matotek


Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC National Certified Counselor, NCC Advanced Reiki Practitioner
Pennsylvania Accepting Online

If you are looking for a time and don’t see it offered please reach out I may be able to accommodate you.

Updated November 1, 2022

Specialties & Expertise

  • LGBTQIA, gender, & sexuality topics
  • Nonmonogamy, polyamory, and kink
  • Anxiety
  • Trauma
  • Self-esteem
  • Women's issues

Professional statement

Have you found yourself to be less passionate about things in your life like work, friends, and your partner(s)? Are you desiring connection, deeper intimacy, better or maybe even more sex? Do you find yourself full of self-doubt and struggling to understand why things have gotten this way, or why connections are so difficult? Waking up on some days full of hope and motivation just to find that by 10am you are back to wanting to isolate, curl up on a coach and zone out with Facebook, or get lost in Tiki Tok. Finding it easier numb out the anxious feelings by scrolling rather than making healthy meaningful connections.

I specialize in helping people talk about difficult subjects like intimacy, sex, shame, guilt, trauma, self-doubt, struggles around gender and sexuality. Together we work to tap into your resilience, self-love, achieve career/ life goals and create deeper more intimate relationships with yourself and others. All sessions are GSRD friendly/Sex/Kink Positive

I bring an elevated level of expertise to session based on my education, trainings, work, and life experience without making it feel super "clinical". I offer an open, relaxed, non-judgmental, inclusive, calm space to develop a healthy trusting therapeutic relationship. "A comfortable space to talk about uncomfortable things"

Message to clients

To those who feel they have lost themselves being everything to everyone else. Who have abandoned their sense of curiosity, wonder, and connection to that divine inner powerful being. Let's change this together!!

Do you crave connection, growth, greater intimacy? Are you open to do the work to examine and gain a deeper understand of your core values and how living aligned with them allows you to tap into your desires igniting the fire within and creating more passionate deeper intimate relationships?

If so......Let’s Chat!


LGBTQIA, gender, & sexuality topics - Exploring topics of sexuality, gender, and identity; coping with discrimination and oppression; navigating relationship, family, and cultural challenges

Nonmonogamy, polyamory, and kink - Exploring one’s values in and beliefs about relationships; practicing boundary-setting, conflict resolution, and romantic or sexual relationship bonding with partners

Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)

Trauma - Coping and healing after threatening or scary events, such as witnessing accidents or experiencing sexual, verbal, emotional, or physical abuse

Self-esteem - Cultivating self-compassion, assertiveness, and confidence; developing ways to reduce suffering, anxiety, social withdrawal, and self-neglect

Women's issues - Therapy tailored to common concerns among women; providing a safe and understanding space to address life challenges, stressors, and questions around identity as a woman


  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples


Jacquelyn Matotek is not in-network with any insurances.

Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions: $130 (55min)
  • Sliding scale: $80 - $130
  • Initial session: $150 (55min)
  • Couples sessions: $220 (90min)
  • Individual Session : $100 (45min)

Additional session information

Out-of-network billing options

This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

  • Super billing
Payment options
  • Credit Card
  • Debit Card
Session frequency

Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

  • Weekly
  • Monthly
  • Every other week
  • Every other month
  • As needed


Online Sessions (Pennsylvania)
Accepting new clients online
Currently Available Times
  • Morning (Before 10am)
  • Daytime (10am - 1pm)
  • Afternoon (1pm - 5pm)
  • Evening (After 5pm)
  • Weekends
Regular Hours
  • Mon closed
  • Tue 9am-5pm
  • Wed 9am-3pm
  • Thu 9am-5pm
  • Fri Closed
  • Sat Hours Available ask about them
  • Sun Hours Available ask about them

Work and Education

Years of Experience: 10 years

Lily and Lotus Counseling / Jacquelyn M Matotek LPC , Owner and Operator , 2016 - Present
Ignited Intimacy and Wellness Coaching and Consulting LLC , Intimacy and Wellness Coach and Consultant, 2021 - Present
Adjunct Professor at National University , Adjunct Psychology Professor , 2022 - Present
Gateway Rehabilitation Center , Drug and Alcohol/Trauma Therapist , 2009 - 2015

Sexual Health Alliance , Sex Therapy (still attending) , 2022
Institute Of Creative Mindfulness , Basic EMDR trained , 2018
Waynesburg University , Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling , 2013
Pennsylvania State University , Bachelor of Arts Applied Psychology , 2010


Pennsylvania: PC008541