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Katie Gilly(She/Her/Hers)

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
ColoradoIllinoisSouth DakotaWashington
Sexual health & dysfunction- Relationship issues- LGBTQIA, gender, and sexuality topics-Premarital counseling-Autism spectrum disorder-ADHD-

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Professional statement

Katie Gilly is a LMFT in Colorado, Illinois, Washington and Wisconsin. She works with individuals and many romantic relationship dynamics. Many of Katie’s clients come in to address difficulty managing anxiety and emotional disconnection. Clients also seek out assistance when experiencing desire discrepancy between partners. Katie is particularly passionate about serving couples who want to improve their emotional and/or sexual intimacy as well as late diagnosed ADHD and Autistic individuals and couples. She has advanced training in Relationships and Sex Therapy.

Katie is trained in a variety of therapy modalities which she pieces together for every person that comes into her office. This allows each client to feel comfortable knowing that their time with her is specifically tailored to their needs. Katie uses the therapeutic relationship to examine patterns of interaction that impact daily life while also exploring new ways to strengthen connections with others. In session, Katie focuses on bringing awareness to the body through emotional experiences of each individual as a way to foster trust in oneself. The use of role play and/or enactment with couples provides a space to utilize the skills being learned in real time during sessions which often leads to more confidence in skills outside of sessions. This approach supports clients to feel seen, heard, understood and accepted for who they are.

Katie's style is authentic, warm and engaging. When clients first start therapy, her focus will be on establishing a strong relationship and a comfortable environment where clients feel safe and heard. Katie offers remote therapy sessions only.

Outside of therapy sessions, Katie enjoys hiking and camping in the mountains with her family, trying out new recipes, reading Suspense/Fantasy fiction books, and engaging in creative projects.

Message to clients

Relationships are hard, whether that relationship is with yourself or others. All relationships need a set of skills that often weren't taught. Without these skills, you may find yourself in unhealthy relationships and/or have difficulty feeling and expressing uncomfortable emotions. By beginning therapy, my hope is that you can learn to live authentically while gaining self awareness and shifting your behaviors that ultimately improves your overall quality of life and relationships.

As you begin, the focus will be on getting to know who you are as a person while fostering a space of emotional safety, acceptance and non-judgment. There may be times in which you find yourself upset with a question or an observation I make. This is normal and a very vital part to the therapy experience. I encourage my clients to share with me when these moments arise as often we can use this information to help you reach your therapy goals.

You've just took a courageous step by looking at potential therapists. I am honored that you are considering working with me at Rocky Mountain Center for Relationships and Sexual Intimacy. When humans are in the throes of difficult experience, there is no greater feat than to take matters into your own hands and decide to make a change.

Work and Education

Years of Experience: 13 years

Rocky Mountain Center for Relationships and Sexual Intimacy, Owner/ Relationship and Sex Therapist
Urban Balance, Therapist
Balance Stress Management and Therapy, Therapist
Turning Point Behavioral Health Center, Therapist
New Foundation Center, Case Management/Group Leader
Camelot Schools, Classroom Counselor
Private Practice, Therapist
Browell Center, Intern Therapist
Goldberg Center, Student Therapist

PACT Institute, Level One, 2023
Syracuse University , Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy , 2011
Bradley University , Bachelors in Psychology , 2007


Colorado: MFT.0001754 - Illinois: 166.001094 - Washington: LF61185234 - Wisconsin: 2069-124 - South Dakota: 11596




Sexual health & dysfunction - Addressing emotional, physical, and biological concerns related to sexual intimacy and functioning; education and skill building around topics such as erectile dysfunction, orgasms, low libido, shame, and history of abuse; improving communication to realize a fulfilling sex life

Relationship issues - Understanding one’s wants and needs in relationships, exploring patterns of interaction, addressing concerns, and strengthening satisfaction in relationships and dating.

LGBTQIA, gender, and sexuality topics - Exploring topics of sexuality, gender, and identity; coping with discrimination and oppression; navigating relationship, family, and cultural challenges

Premarital counseling - Providing a safe and neutral environment for couples to explore expectations and prepare for the rewards and challenges of marriage

Autism spectrum disorder - Support understanding the diagnosis and related challenges and strengths; skill-building in areas of daily routine, transitions, coping with overwhelming sensory experiences, social skills, and emotion identification and regulation

ADHD - Skill-building and support around organizational challenges, distracted attention, procrastination; building and maintaining healthy routines and structure.


  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples
  • Seniors (65+)
  • Young adults (18-24)
  • Loveland Therapy Fund Clients

Locations & Hours


    Katie Gilly is accepting clients paying listed fees or using health insurance out-of-network benefits other than:

    • Blue Cross Blue Shield of Illinois Blue Choice
    • Blue Cross Blue Shield of Illinois PPO

    Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.

    Out-of-pocket fees

    • Individual sessions:$160 (50min)
    • Initial session:$250 (90min)
    • Couples sessions:$185 (50min)

    Additional session information

    Out-of-network billing options

    This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

    • Super billing
    Payment options
    • Credit Card
    • Debit Card
    Session frequency

    Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

    • Weekly
    • Every other week
    • Multiple times a week
    Therapist's note

    Client testimonials

    "Katie is a great listener with a lot of insight! She has a wonderful sense of humor that put me as the client at ease."
    - Zencare client September 2023
    "Katie is very genuine and caring. I feel like I can open up and share my thoughts after just one tele-therapy. I'm pleased I was able to find her and that she was in-network with my insurance."
    - Zencare client November 2023