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Lily Petroff(She/Her/Hers)

Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT
Attachment issues- Existential crisis & challenges-Race & cultural identity-Spirituality & religion- Trauma-
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Professional statement

Lily is a firm believer that healing happens in relationship, and not alone. Whether it’s in individual or relationship therapy, she will be with you every step of the way, lovingly guiding you to experience yourself and your relationships in ways you’ve never known, but longed for.

Lily’s extensive training in developmental and relational trauma equips her to support her clients with attachment-wounding healing at the deepest level, freeing them from lifelong patterns of holding and inauthenticity. A long time meditator and former social justice educator, Lily brings a clear, compassionate presence, alongside a keen awareness of how power dynamics and identity impact our experiences into her work. She is uniquely trained in offering therapeutic touch-work into therapy sessions when appropriate, which she has found to be the missing piece for most of her clients in their healing process.

She is available for remote sessions in California and for in-person sessions at her lovely farm-based office in Sebastopol, CA.

Message to clients

Life just feels too painful and overwhelming sometimes. If you feel like you've touched the bottom of the well, I'm here to meet you there at the bottom.

With kindness, gentleness, humor, and grace, I will support you with finding the courage to listen to your deepest longings and follow your innermost, silent heart all the way.

Work and Education

Years of Experience: 4 years

California Institute of Integral Studies, M.A. Integral Counseling Psychology, 2021
U.C. Berkeley, B.A. Cognitive Sciences, 2016


California: 136248




Attachment issues - Development of effective relational and communication skills; insight into family attachment patterns;fostering healthy family relationships.

Existential crisis & challenges - Supportive exploration of meaning and purpose in one’s life; finding one’s path in the face of existential anxiety, dread, and feelings of meaninglessness

Race & cultural identity - Exploring topics of racial, cultural, and ethnic background as it relates to one’s family origins and personal identity

Spirituality & religion - Exploring beliefs and practices related to meaning, existence, and spiritual health and healing; enjoying a deeper felt connection with the spiritual dimension of one's life

Trauma - Coping and healing after threatening or scary events, such as witnessing accidents or experiencing sexual, verbal, emotional, or physical abuse


  • Adults (24+)
  • Children (<12)
  • Couples
  • Families
  • Parents
  • Seniors (65+)
  • Teenagers (13-18)
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours


Lily Petroff is not in-network with any insurances.

Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$150 (50min)
  • Sliding scale:$120 - $150
  • Couples sessions:$200 (50min)