Liz  Selzer-Lang

Liz Selzer-Lang

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
California Accepting Online
Beverly Hills/Mid-Wilshire Accepting In-person

Due to Covid, accepting new clients in person ONLY if they are vaccinated. In-person days: Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday.

Online: Mondays 9-9; Wednesdays 5-9

Updated July 21, 2021

Specialties & Expertise

  • Couples counseling
  • Sex therapy & sexual health
  • Anxiety
  • Addiction
  • Life transitions

Professional statement

Liz Selzer-Lang is a licensed marriage & family therapist in Los Angeles, CA with dual certifications in couple and sex therapy. Whether seeing clients as individuals or with their partner(s), she welcomes discussion of sexual concerns, including low/absent desire, discrepant desire, performance and/or pain issues, and problems with closeness.

Liz is an LGBT/kink- and poly-affirmative therapist. She also works with clients who are grappling with anxiety, addiction and substance use concerns, and life transitions.

Liz's approach to therapy involves a compassionate, nonjudgmental exploration of the parts of clients they would like to change as well as their many strengths. She uses validated techniques from psychodynamic, MBCBT, and somatic therapies to help clients achieve what all of us wish for – good feelings that last. Obstacles to good feelings include loss, chronic shame, unprocessed trauma, neglect and abuse, addiction and paralyzing anxiety.

Liz understands that healthy relationships are how we reach our full potential, and looks forward to helping all her clients attain their goals.

Message to clients

Therapy is an opportunity to slow down—at least for an hour or so—to have a conversation with yourself.  I will be there as an engaged and compassionate guide to help you navigate difficult feelings and conflicts and move toward a closer, more joyful connection with yourself and others.

My goal is to lend you my mind and sometimes my nervous system to help you stay in the present, calm and grounded, so that you feel empowered to be your best self.

As a couple therapist I am an active participant in helping you express feelings and needs to your partner(s); learn new ways to short-circuit conflict; and heal painful ruptures in the relationship.  As a sex therapist for individuals and couples my hope is for you to have access to pleasure and connection and confidence in your ability to make healthy choices.


Couples counseling - Addressing relationship challenges and life transitions; strengthening communication and feelings of security, desire, connection, and love

Sex therapy & sexual health - Addressing emotional, cognitive, and relational concerns related to sexual intimacy and functioning; education and skill building around topics such as erectile dysfunction, orgasm, low libido, shame, and history of abuse; improving communication to realize a fulfilling sex life

Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder); and generalized anxiety using evidence-based techniques

Addiction - Coping with emotional and mental discomfort related to early sobriety; reducing or abstaining from unwanted behaviors, such as substance use, co-dependency and other compulsive behaviors

Life transitions - Coping with difficult or impactful life changes, such as moving to a new area, relationship transitions, child rearing, or career changes; learning self-care to better manage resulting stress


  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples
  • Families
  • Seniors (65+)
  • Young adults (18-24)


Liz Selzer-Lang is not in-network with any insurances.

Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Ongoing sessions: $250 (50min)
  • Sliding scale: $175 - $250
  • Initial session: $250 (50min)
  • Couples sessions: $250 (45min)

Additional session information

Out-of-network billing options

This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

  • Super billing
Payment options
  • Cash
  • Credit Card
  • PayPal
  • Zelle
Session frequency

Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

  • Weekly
  • Every other week
  • Multiple times a week
  • As needed


Beverly Hills/Mid-Wilshire practice
6363 Wilshire Boulevard, Suite 407, Los Angeles, California 90048
Accepting new clients in-person
Currently Available Times
  • Morning (Before 10am)
  • Daytime (10am - 1pm)
  • Afternoon (1pm - 5pm)
  • Evening (After 5pm)
  • Weekends
Regular Hours
  • Mon
  • Tue 10:00-8:00
  • Wed
  • Thu 10:00am-8:00pm
  • Fri Closed
  • Sat 9:00am-3:00pm
  • Sun Closed

Online Sessions (California)
Accepting new clients online
Currently Available Times
  • Morning (Before 10am)
  • Daytime (10am - 1pm)
  • Afternoon (1pm - 5pm)
  • Evening (After 5pm)
  • Weekends
Regular Hours
  • Mon 9:00am-9:00pm
  • Tue 10:00am-8:00pm
  • Wed 5:00pm-9:00pm
  • Thu 10:00am-8:00pm
  • Fri Closed
  • Sat 9:00am-3:00pm
  • Sun Closed

Work and Education

Private Practice, 2012 - Present
MFT Intern, TMCC, 2009 - 2012

Pepperdine University, MA/MFT, 2010
New York University, MA, Film 1991