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Mat Barbosa(He/Him/His)

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Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Massachusetts
Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)-Phobias & fears-Panic attacks / panic disorder- Anxiety -Chronic pain- Life transitions-

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Professional statement

Mat is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with the private practice providing telehealth individual therapy throughout Massachusetts. Mat's clients range in the issues they are struggling with but all have at least one thing in common: they are all human beings. Part of being human is to experience thoughts and emotions. Sometimes this can be overwhelming and this is likely why you are searching on this website now.

The decision to come to counseling can be difficult. Taking that leap into the unknown can be scary. Mat believes an individual decides to come to therapy because they have tried everything could to improve their situation but have become stuck. The goal in therapy is to assist the client in becoming ‘unstuck’ and taking steps towards a more rich and meaningful life. Mat will work with you from a down to earth, non judgmental, solution focused, and accepting stance.

Mat’s therapeutic approach is a behavior therapy (like CBT) called Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) although he uses ideas from other therapies based on what the individual needs. In ACT, an aim in therapy is to help you with getting your life going in the direction you want it to be going while also helping you to better handle the obstacles along the way. This is done through a goal-oriented, mindfulness based approach tied to YOUR values, not anyone else's.

OCD, phobias, and anxiety are Mat’s specialties. He has training in exposure and response prevention (ERP) which is the gold standard for treatment for OCD and phobias.  It does require hard work, commitment, and stepping out of your comfort zone. In doing ERP from an ACT approach, Mat will work with you on this and move at your pace.


Message to clients

I pride myself in being down to earth, accepting, and seeing myself as your partner in improving your life. We are all human and we all experience difficult thoughts and emotions as a part of life. I'm here to help!

The name of my practice is Learning to Bend Counseling Services. The meaning behind this name encompasses the philosophy of my approach. Throughout history there have been many examples of the metaphor of 'bending like a tree.'  From Aesop's fable of the Oak and the Reed to Lao Tsu's Tao Te Ching, there are many variations on the saying (and they all essentially mean the same thing).  My favorite is from Tao Te Ching which is, "The tree that is unbending is easily broken."  So what does this have to do with counseling?  Well, we humans can be quite rigid.  'Things need to be this way.  I cannot have this anxiety/pain/sadness.'  In counseling, the aim is to work with you on learning to "bend" with the winds life can throw at us. Also, I love metaphors if you haven't noticed yet.

If you are interested in taking that ‘leap’ into counseling and learning to bend, or you have any questions or concerns before you do decide, please feel free to contact me.  I look forward to working with you and it would be my honor to help guide you to a more rich and meaningful life where you are able to live your life despite whatever it is that has you stuck at the moment.


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 11 years

Learning to Bend Counseling Services, Mental Health Counselor, 2021 - Present
Private practice (not my own practice), Mental Health Counselor, 2017 - 2021
Child and Family Services, Lead clinician on crisis unit, 2016 - 2017
Child and Family Services, Emergency Services/Crisis Clinician, 2015 - 2016
Community mental health, Mental Health Counselor, 2013 - 2015
Inpatient Psychiatric Hospital, Mental Health Worker, 2010 - 2014

University of Massachusetts, Dartmouth, MA - Clinical Psychcology, 2014

Licensure

Massachusetts: 10150

Languages

English

Specialties

Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) - Through exposure you will learn that you can still do the things you want to do/live the life you want to live even though there will still be some anxiety along for the ride. The anxiety does not need to disappear for you to move forward. By staying in contact with the anxiety (through exposure) and not engaging in safety behaviors (compulsions), your confidence in your ability to handle the anxiety and discomfort is going to gradually grow.

Phobias & fears - Providing techniques and support to overcome intense fear, anxiety, and panic related to specific triggers, such as heights or crowded spaces. Description of treatment under OCD applies here as well.

Panic attacks / panic disorder - Brief, intense periods of overwhelming fear or anxiety. Description of treatment under OCD applies here as well.

Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)

Chronic pain - Managing the biological, psychological, and emotional aspects of pain. My role as your therapist is not part of your medical team but, rather, is to help you change your relationship with pain to reduce and even eliminate the secondary suffering which is often common with chronic pain.

Life transitions - Coping with difficult or impactful life changes, such as moving to a new area, relationship transitions, child rearing, or career changes; learning self-care to better manage resulting stress




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Teenagers (13-18)
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours


Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Aetna International
  • Aetna Student Health Insurance
  • AllWays Health Partners (formerly Neighborhood Health)
  • Berklee College of Music Student Health Insurance (Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO)
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield of MA HMO
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield of MA PPO
  • Harvard Pilgrim
  • Harvard Student Health Insurance (Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO)
  • Health Plans Inc.
  • Lesley University Student Health Insurance (Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO)
  • MIT Student and Affiliate Extended Insurance Plan (Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO)
  • Mass General Brigham
  • Northeastern University Student Health Insurance (Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO)
  • Optum
  • Tufts Health Plan
  • UMR
  • United Healthcare
  • United Healthcare Shared Services
  • United Healthcare Student Health Plan

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$150 (53min)

Additional session information

Payment options
  • Credit Card
Session frequency

Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

  • Weekly
  • Every other week

Client testimonials

"very understanding and a good listener!"
- Zencare client April 2024
"I think Mat is great and I look forward to working with him!"
- Zencare client May 2024

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