John Carr(He/Him/His)
Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker, LICSW
Massachusetts
Adjustment to fatherhood-Anger management-Anxiety-Stress management-Depression-Parenting-Men's issues-Existential challenges-
John Carr
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Professional statement
John Carr is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker in Boston, MA. He specializes in working with men and fathers as they navigate work and relationships that can often bring on feelings of stress, anger, depression, anxiety and loneliness. John believes that too many men are going through life alone and need more connection, curiosity and compassion in their lives.
As a father himself, John is deeply passionate about supporting fathers and provides them with a comfortable place to talk about what ever they need to talk about. While working with clients, he incorporates an integrated approach that encourages his clients to slow down so they can process and make sense of their thoughts and feelings; this helps them understand who they are, what they want and need and assists in making healthy decisions.
John is the author of Becoming a Dad: The First Three Years, a book on fatherhood, which has sold more than 50,000 copies.
Work and Education
Years of Experience: 27 years
Private practice in Boston, 2015 - Present
Private practice in New York, 2002 - 2015
Adelphi University Institute for Parenting, Parent Education and Guidance, 2012 - 2013
The Counseling Center, Staff Psychotherapist, 2010 - 2012
Partnership with Children Inc., Group Coordinator, 2005 - 2006
Blanton-Peale Counseling Center and Institute, Resident Therapist/Staff Therapist, 2001 - 2006
Steinway Child and Family Services, Inc., Staff Psychotherapist, 1998 - 2001
Pace University Upward Bound Program, Head Tutor Counselor, 1996 - 1998
New York Hospital Cornell Medical Center, 1989 - 1996
Blanton Peale Graduate Institute, Certificate in Psychotherapy and Spirituality, 2004
Hunter College School of Social Work, MSW, 1998
Ohio Wesleyan University, BA, 1989
Licensure
Massachusetts: 118043Languages
EnglishSpecialties
Adjustment to fatherhood - Helping with identifying your role; work through differences in parenting styles; be a supportive sounding board; explore relationship with your own father/mother
Anger management - Managing anger and its impact on personal and work relationships; offers short term work using anger management workbook
Anxiety - Generalized anxiety and social anxiety
Stress management - Coping with stress of life and change, expectations of self and other
Depression - Sleep and energy disruption, overall mood disturbance, inability to enjoy yourself, difficulty being motivated, irritability, and anger, among many other symptoms. Big believer in exercise, self compassion and meditation
Parenting - Helping parents name, validate and express theirs or their children's feelings. Set age appropriate limits and expectations and natural consequences that help children grow.
Men's issues - Including grappling with questions of masculinity, what it means to be a man, overall psychological health
Existential challenges - Questioning purpose, spirituality, existence; finding one’s path and voice, especially when it differs from society's expectations; identity formation during times of transition and change
General expertise
Treatment approaches
Clientele
- Adults (24+)
- Parents
- Young adults (18-24)
Locations & Hours
My practice is hybrid (virtual and in-person)
Insurance
John Carr is not in-network with any insurances.
Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.
Out-of-pocket fees
Get reimbursed for sessions with John Carr
Many health insurance plans reimburse 50-80% of session fees with out-of-network therapists. Learn if your health insurance plan qualifies.
- Individual sessions:$260 (50min)
- Group sessions:$100 (120min)
- Ongoing session fee:$360 (90min)
Additional session information
Out-of-network billing options
This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:
Payment options
- IvyPay
Session frequency
Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.
- Weekly
- Every other week
Therapist's note
If you'd like to discuss a sliding scale or reduced fee please bring it up with John. John accepts payment through Ivy Pay, which is a payment platform specifically designed for psychotherapists. It allows clients to put a credit card on file, that card gets charged after each appointment.
If you have health insurance and would like to use it for therapy, please contact your insurance company to find out if you have benefits for “out-of-network; out-patient mental health therapy." Many PPO and POS plans have "out-of-network" benefits that cover a percentage of therapy. Payment is due at the time of the session, and you will be provided with a superbill to submit to your insurance company, who will then send you a check directly for reimbursement.
Professional endorsements
"John has a huge heart. He cares tremendously about his clients and is passionate about his work. He’s always pushing himself to grow and learn. I would send my own family to him, which is the highest endorsement I can think of."
- David Younger, PhD • June 2017"I always feel good when I think about any client connecting with John. He has a genuine, modest, warm and welcoming quality that is a natural expression of who he is at a deep level. And he is skilled, experienced, and deeply compassionate. He’s one of my favorite people both on a professional and personal level. John has a great heart combined with an astute mind and a great willingness to laugh. I recommend him highly."
- Douglas Baker, LICSW • June 2017"I have referred several providers, both physicians and mid-levels, to John Carr for stress management and interpersonal relationship skills. I was very impressed with Mr. Carr’s professionalism in working with the providers I referred to him and maintaining the confidentiality of his work with the providers referred. Without exception, the providers I referred to Mr. Carr reported back to me how much they enjoyed working with him. The providers reported to me that working with Mr. Carr helped them in their work life as well as their personal life. I observed a marked improvement in the work and stress management skills of the providers who worked with Mr. Carr."
- Bill Pagano, MD, MPH • June 2017"I am writing this as a testimonial to the positive effect that John Carr has had on my staff. He was consulted on multiple occasions to work to address both anger management and stress. As expected, the individuals involved initially looked at the expected counseling as punitive — but after having had the counseling they were extremely grateful for having been sent and it reflected positively in their work and how they interacted with their colleagues. We are disappointed that Mr. Carr will not be as easily accessible for us here in Brooklyn but are certain others will find his counseling quite beneficial."
- George Aglialoro, DO • June 2017Client testimonials
"John was someone who helped me when I was feeling most vulnerable. He saw me through a lot of big changes in my life: losing my job, going back to school, becoming a father. John helped me learn about myself and understand what my anger was trying to communicate. He endured and patiently sat with my hurt underneath it all and taught me how to be compassionate toward myself and to others. I will always be grateful."
- Former client • June 2017"A few years ago I needed help sorting through various problems and anxieties stemming from relationships, a history of poor communication skills, family issues, and sobriety. John was able to see me in a way I had not been seen before. Our work together changed my life by positively developing my ability to communicate, listen, and explore my history, thoughts, and emotions. All of this work had deeper implications and, very helpful to me as an artist, continued to open up my creative potential. John’s capacity to see and hear a client combined with open and honest feedback is a blessing."
- Former client • June 2017"One of John’s greatest skills as a therapist is his ability to serve as a guide and advisor throughout one’s journey of identity formation. He supported my taking command of the process as I unpacked and sorted through my emotional past and present to arrive at a more integrated and individuated self. During our sessions, he knew just when to assume control and share his knowledge, highlighting parts of myself and experiences that I could focus on to derive the emotional, spiritual, and intellectual power to be a better son, brother, lover, friend, and professional."
- Former client • February 2017