Description
I'm the Problem: For adults who grew up feeling like too much — or not enough 🫵🏻
This group is for you if:
-You want closeness but something always gets in the way.
-You've been left, rejected, feel like a burden — and part of you believes it.
-You keep ending up in the same place: alone, wondering what's wrong with you.
-You know your childhood shaped you. You're just not sure how to stop letting it run the show.
•Wednesday Mornings
•On Zoom
•Courtesy Out-of-network billing
Led by Bassy Schwartz, LMFT & Ayala Feder, MSW
Group Therapist
**Bassy makes therapy financially accessible by applying your out-of-network benefits directly to our fee, reducing your out-of-pocket cost by a third or more. We handle all the billing, collect the reimbursement, and all you pay upfront is a copay.**
Bassy is a Marriage and Family Therapist based in Cedarhurst, New York, working with individuals and couples in-person and virtually anywhere in New York State.
Most of the people Bassy works with are doing fine on paper. They're functioning, showing up, holding their lives together. But somewhere underneath, something isn't right. Maybe it's the way they talk to themselves when no one's listening. Maybe it's a partnership that's gone quiet. Maybe it's the constant sense of not being enough, or being too much, or never quite landing anywhere that feels like home.
Bassy's work starts where most of us were never taught to look: at the relationship you have with yourself.
That relationship was shaped long before you had a say in it. By the people who raised you, by what you had to do to be loved, by what you learned to hide. The voice in your head, the patterns you keep ending up in, all of it traces back there. And it's all repairable, once you can actually see it.
Bassy draws from attachment-based, psychodynamic, and emotionally focused therapies. In plain terms, she pays attention to how your earliest relationships shaped the way you reach, withdraw, protect, or perform now. She also tracks what the body is holding, because what we lived through doesn't just live in our heads.
In session, Bassy is warm and engaged. She isn't the kind of therapist who sits silently while clients do the work alone. She'll be right there with you, asking the question underneath the question. Reach out today for a free 15 minute consult.
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