Abbe Payne-Meili
Abbe Payne-Meili
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Abbe Payne-Meili(She/Her/Hers)

(She/Her/Hers)
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
New York
Adjustment difficulties & disorders- Anxiety - Depression-Perfectionism- Relationship issues- Stress management-
Resilience Lab

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Accepting online

In-network with some insurances

$100-$150

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Professional statement

As a therapist and former yoga teacher, Abbe unpacks how clients experience anxiety, depression, and past traumas in their bodies. Some might feel frozen, stuck, or unable to take action. By addressing the holistic connection between mental and physical health, clients can create strategies to overcome their struggles.

Abbe mainly works with women to address feelings of guilt and anxiety, improve self esteem, create better relationships, and learn to advocate for themselves. She sees many women struggle to create healthy boundaries or express their needs because of social conditioning.

In her work, Abbe asks many open questions and uses aspects of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and mindfulness to facilitate growth. Therapy with Abbe is a space where women can build confidence, strengthen their sense of self, and learn to listen to their inner voice.

Message to clients

The expectations placed on women can cause us to lose touch with ourselves or tune out our inner voice. Setting boundaries and advocating for ourselves are skills many of us need to learn to protect our mental health. By integrating mindfulness with techniques to rewire your thoughts, I create a space for identifying your needs and putting yourself first.

Work and Education

Resilience Lab, Therapist

Licensure

New York: 117406

Languages

English

Specialties

Adjustment difficulties & disorders - Support around adapting to new and/or challenging life circumstances; skill-building for improved stress management and reduction of anxiety.

Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)

Depression - Providing support and promoting healing of hopelessness, low motivation and energy, sadness, irritability, sleep disturbance, and loss of interest and pleasure in life

Perfectionism - Coping with feelings of anxiety, stress, self-criticism, and procrastination; addressing unrealistic expectations of one’s self and negatively comparing self to others

Relationship issues - Understanding one’s wants and needs in relationships; exploring patterns of interaction, addressing concerns, and strengthening satisfaction in relationships and dating

Stress management - Strengthening effective ways of coping with the stress of life and change; managing expectations of self and others

General expertise

Treatment approaches

Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Teenagers (13-18)
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours

Please note that at this time, I'm unable to accept Medicare or Medicaid plans.

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Aetna International
  • Aetna Student Health Insurance
  • All Savers Insurance Company
  • Allied Benefit Systems
  • Cigna
  • Golden Rule Insurance Company
  • Harvard Pilgrim
  • Horizon Blue Cross Blue Shield of New Jersey
  • Meritain Health
  • New School Student Insurance (United Healthcare Student Resources)
  • Nippon Life Benefits
  • Optum
  • Oxford Health Plans
  • Surest (formerly Bind)
  • Trustmark
  • Tufts Health Plan
  • UMR
  • United Healthcare
  • United Healthcare Shared Services
  • University of California Berkeley Student Health Insurance (Wellfleet Student)
  • Wellfleet

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$150 (45min)
  • Sliding scale:$100 - $150