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Marjory Gray(She/Her/Hers)

(She/Her/Hers)
Psychologist, PhD
MassachusettsRhode Island
Life transitions- Loss, grief, and bereavement- Relationship issues- Trauma-Women's issues-Mind-body connection-

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Professional statement

Dr. Marjory Roberts Gray is a psychologist in Portsmouth, RI. She sees clients at many stages of life from adolescents to senior citizens. She enjoys working with a broad range of challenges, including but not limited to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, life transitions, and trauma. She primarily utilizes a therapy approach called Internal Family Systems (IFS), which holds that we all have multiple components of self which can get quite out of balance throughout our lives (do you ever wonder who you're talking to when you say that you're talking to yourself? Many of us have internal critics, as one example of a "part" who holds certain beliefs, feelings, pain, etc.) IFS takes the refreshing perspective that many of the "problems" people bring to therapy are typically less representative of a mental health "disorder" and more a sign that several parts have become extreme in ways that end up causing significant distress to ourselves and/or others (again, examples include parts we refer to as "workaholics" or "overeaters" or "perfectionists"). While most people wish to discard these parts of themselves, these efforts don't succeed, and an entrenched cycle of parts repeat the same unproductive patterns, sometimes for years. Working with these parts helps to transform the way clients treat themselves, allowing a window to open for much greater compassion, curiosity, courage, and confidence in all aspects of life. Dr. Gray's work is also informed by attachment-based and mindfulness approaches, so that clients can use their internal resources to heal past relationship ruptures and cultivate a more connected, present, and calm state in their daily lives. Dr. Gray offers in-person and remote sessions, and she engages clients in the process of determining the most convenient and effective option (s) for them.


Message to clients

Whether you are new to therapy or have seen multiple mental health professionals, finding the right one for you often feels like a daunting task. You may have heard that it's important to find the right "match" or "fit" for you, which I believe is absolutely true and essential. But how do you make that determination? I suggest a few things when searching for a therapist, no matter the reason--whether you are looking for someone to help you learn to manage stress, grieve a loss, or support your journey through the peaks and valleys inherent to life. 1) Make an initial appointment with several therapists so that you can compare your experience with each one of them. 2) Ask any question you may have, such as a potential therapist's familiarity with your particular concerns and situation and his or her general approach to therapy. 3) Ask yourself whether you feel safe and comfortable with the therapists you meet. Do you feel heard? Is your experience free of judgement? Does the therapist strike you as someone who genuinely can and wants to help?

Above all, do your best to listen to what your gut and your heart tell you when you are making this all-important decision.


Work and Education

Years of Experience: 24 years

Self-employed, Clinical Psychologist, 2001 - Present

Temple University, PhD, 2001

Licensure

Massachusetts: 8238 - Rhode Island: PS01590

Languages

English

Specialties

Life transitions - Coping with difficult or impactful life changes, such as moving to a new area, relationship transitions, child rearing, or career changes; learning self-care to better manage resulting stress

Loss, grief, and bereavement - Emotionally preparing for the anticipated passing of a loved one; managing feelings and reactions to a death or loss of significance; support during the process of healing and acceptance

Relationship issues - Understanding one’s wants and needs in relationships; exploring patterns of interaction, addressing concerns, and strengthening satisfaction in relationships and dating

Trauma - Coping and healing after threatening or scary events, such as witnessing accidents or experiencing sexual, verbal, emotional, or physical abuse

Women's issues - Therapy tailored to common concerns among women; providing a safe and understanding space to address life challenges, stressors, and questions around identity as a woman

Mind-body connection - Practicing mindfulness to draw together how the body feels physically and how the mind feels mentally; healing both physically and mentally




Clientele

  • Adults (24+)
  • Seniors (65+)
  • Young adults (18-24)

Locations & Hours


Insurance

Marjory Gray is not in-network with any insurances.

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Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions:$200 (60min)