Alexander Ly, Therapist in Fremont, California — Zencare
Alexander  Ly
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Alexander Ly


Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
California Accepting Online
Fremont Accepting In-person
Updated August 8, 2022

Specialties & Expertise

  • Race & cultural identity
  • Trauma
  • Family issues
  • Self-esteem
  • Perfectionism

Professional statement

I am an Asian American Trauma Therapist who specializes in helping Asian American adults overcome perfectionism, and toxic family dynamics and heal from childhood trauma. I provide culturally sensitive therapy for Asian American clients who struggle with shame, guilt, and perfectionism to heal, grow and thrive. I specialize in help clients heal from trauma that come from childhood and family.

If you struggle with with toxic family dynamics, crippling self-criticism, and perfectionism, I can help. I get what it is like to grow up in a family feeling not good enough and to never allow yourself to be you. I get what it is like to always put others' needs before yourself, and to have difficulty expressing what you want out of fear, guilt, and shame.

Message to clients

I get what it is like to struggle with self-esteem, shame, doubt, and never feeling “good enough.” You do not need to struggle alone and without help. Therapy is a deeply rewarding process and by working with me you can uncover the roots as to why you feel and act the way you do.

To learn more contact me for a free consultation by leaving a message.

You deserve to thrive and grow.


Race & cultural identity - I focus on integrating your cultural experience and identity into therapy and discuss how your cultural family upbringing affects you today.

Trauma - I focus on exploring, processing, and healing from childhood trauma, religious trauma, or relational trauma. I use Brainspotting, and other therapeutic methods to help further deep healing.

Family issues - I help you navigate, and process family issues, especially around family expectations, and needing to please your family.

Self-esteem - I help you process your feelings of inadequacy, and “not being good enough” by exploring the root causes behind your feelings.

Perfectionism - I help you overcome perfectionism by uncovering underlying feelings behind perfectionism and how perfectionism has helped you in childhood.


  • Adults (24+)
  • Young adults (18-24)


Alexander Ly is not in-network with any insurances.

Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions: $190 (50min)

Additional session information

Out-of-network billing options

This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

  • Super billing
Payment options
  • Credit Card
  • IvyPay
Session frequency

Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

  • Weekly
  • Every other week


Online Sessions (California)
Accepting new clients online
Currently Available Times
  • Morning (Before 10am)
  • Daytime (10am - 1pm)
  • Afternoon (1pm - 5pm)
  • Evening (After 5pm)
  • Weekends
Regular Hours
  • Mon 8am-7pm
  • Tue 8am-7pm
  • Wed None
  • Thu 8am-7pm
  • Fri 8am-5pm
  • Sat None
  • Sun None

Fremont practice
39180 Liberty St Suite 220-3, Fremont, California 94538
Accepting new clients in-person
Currently Available Times
  • Morning (Before 10am)
  • Daytime (10am - 1pm)
  • Afternoon (1pm - 5pm)
  • Evening (After 5pm)
  • Weekends
Regular Hours
  • Mon Closed
  • Tue Closed
  • Wed Closed
  • Thu 9am-8pm
  • Fri Closed
  • Sat Closed
  • Sun Closed

Work and Education

Years of Experience: 4 years

Western Seminary, MA Counseling, 2019


California: LMFT130849