Nicole Irving(She/Her/Hers)

Nicole Irving is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia and Washington DC, specializing in sex and relationship therapy. She works with individuals and couples struggling with sexual issues including loss of desire, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, or differences in desire between partners. Other areas she also treats are exploring fantasies, kink, BDSM, or festishes, discovering and re-discovering desire, and working with the LGBTQ+ community in exploring identity and healing from trauma. In relationship work, she guides partners through strategies to improve communication, identify attachment issues, heal from infidelity, and build intimacy, passion, and security in the relationship. While Nicole specializes in sex and relationships, she is also a Certified CBT-I Pratitioner who treats insomnia.

Nicole works from a warm, compassionate, and nonjudgmental approach. She prides herself on being an inclusive and relatable therapist who normalizes sexual and relationship issues. She works with all backgrounds and is LGBTQ+, poly, and kink-friendly. She believes in offering evidence-based solutions to help her clients overcome whatever challenges they face. She creates a collaborative environment where clients feel heard and understood.

Nicole received her Masters in Arts in Psychology and Counseling at New York University. She then went on to George Washington University in DC to gain a Post-Master’s Certificate in Counseling. She is currently pursuing her Ph.D. in Clinical Sexology from Modern Sex Therapy Institutes and is expected to receive her doctorate in 2025. She has worked with individuals and couples since 2017 and is trained in Sex Therapy interventions, the Gottman Method, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, attachment theory, and Existential Therapy.

Nicole offers both in person and telehealth sessions to Virginia and Washington DC residents and has both early morning and evening availability.