Sonya  Som
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Sonya Som


Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, LPCC Certified Hypnotist, CH
Colorado Accepting Online
Lakewood, Lower Highland Accepting In-person
Updated January 12, 2023

Specialties & Expertise

  • Divorce & separation
  • Trauma
  • Race & cultural identity
  • Adjustment difficulties & disorders
  • Self-esteem
  • Anxiety

Professional statement

Sonya Som is an MFTC, LPCC, EMDR & Brainspotting trained therapist and certified hypnotherapist in Colorado. She serves clients across Colorado via HIPPA compliant video conferencing software. She also sees clients in person by request in her office in Lakewood.

She provides psychotherapy to individuals and couples. She also provides a 5 to 9 session therapeutic program for clients going through the “uncoupling” process, known as Uncouples Counseling.

Clients come to her for help working through myriad issues, including but never limited to:

restructuring limiting patterns of behavior


overachievers who are underachieving

subconscious blocks and limiting beliefs

divorce & co-parenting


stress management

spiritual progress

resolving trauma (including complex trauma/childhood wounds)

identifying triggers

developing the wise mind

understanding decision-making processes

tapping into intuition

living authentically

resilience building

relational skills

distress tolerance

disrupting cognitive distortions

understanding personal thought and behavioral patterns

Sonya's clients have described her as accepting, curious, collaborative, funny, insightful, wise, and caring. Sonya uses an integrative approach that incorporates elements of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) & trauma-focused practices. She also utilizes powerful tools such as Brainspotting, EMDR, and hypnotherapy.

Message to clients

Hi! Thank you for visiting my profile. I am confident you've come to the right place. I know therapy is tough. Committing to therapy is tough. It's an investment. It takes up time out of our busy schedules. No matter what, we can always come up with 101 reasons not to do it. It's scary. It drudges up the hard stuff.

But the hard stuff is always there. And with therapy, we can make dealing with that hard stuff easier. You deserve to live a life where you are comfortable with your mind, your thoughts, your feelings, and your decisions. So many of us live in fear of ourselves, of what's living right under the surface. We run from our psyches, enabling our innate fragility instead of strengthening our true, best selves. We decide not to go there, because it feels too hard, too much. "What if there's something wrong with me? What if I'm bad? What if I'm too broken, too far gone to be helped?"

Well, the truth is, you're not.

You can be helped, and therapy can help you. Therapy is the place you can go to work on yourself so you don't have to spend the rest of your days suffering, living avoidantly in the hopes of making your life easier. Therapy is the hard work we do, the investment we make, to live lives that are easier, meaningful, joyful, secure, and healthy. You can go there.

And I am here to go there with you.


Divorce & separation - Questioning or feeling unsatisfied in your relationship; contemplation and navigation of separation; addressing issues of power, voice, and communication challenges

Trauma - Coping and healing after threatening or scary events, such as witnessing accidents or experiencing sexual, verbal, emotional, or physical abuse

Race & cultural identity - Exploring topics of racial, cultural, and ethnic background as it relates to one’s family origins and personal identity

Adjustment difficulties & disorders - Support around adapting to new and/or challenging life circumstances; skill-building for improved stress management and reduction of anxiety.

Self-esteem - Cultivating self-compassion, assertiveness, and confidence; developing ways to reduce suffering, anxiety, social withdrawal, and self-neglect

Anxiety - Coping with excessive worry, nervousness, or stress; intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety); sudden and intense feelings of panic (panic disorder)


  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples
  • Seniors (65+)
  • Teenagers (13-18)
  • Young adults (18-24)
  • Loveland Therapy Fund Clients


Sonya Som is not in-network with any insurances.

Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions: $150 (55min)
  • Sliding scale: $115 - $150
  • Couples sessions: $175 (60min)
  • EMDR 90 Min: $210 (90min)
  • Hypnotherapy 90 Min: $210 (90min)
  • Brainspotting 60 Min: $150 (60min)

Additional session information

Out-of-network billing options

This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

  • Super billing
Payment options
  • Cash
  • Credit Card
  • Debit Card
  • PayPal
  • Venmo
  • Zelle
  • IvyPay
Session frequency

Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

  • Weekly
  • Monthly
  • Every other week
  • Every other month
  • Multiple times a week
  • As needed


Online Sessions (Colorado)
Accepting new clients online
Currently Available Times
  • Morning (Before 10am)
  • Daytime (10am - 1pm)
  • Afternoon (1pm - 5pm)
  • Evening (After 5pm)
  • Weekends
Regular Hours
  • Mon 9am - 4pm
  • Tue 9am - 4pm
  • Wed 9am - 4pm
  • Thu 9am - 4pm
  • Fri 9am - 3pm
  • Sat Closed
  • Sun Closed

Lakewood practice
12157 West Cedar Drive, Suite 200, Lakewood, Colorado 80228
Accepting new clients in-person
Currently Available Times
  • Morning (Before 10am)
  • Daytime (10am - 1pm)
  • Afternoon (1pm - 5pm)
  • Evening (After 5pm)
  • Weekends
Regular Hours
  • Mon 9:00am - 4:00pm
  • Tue 9:00am - 4:00pm
  • Wed 9:00am - 4:00pm
  • Thu 9:00am - 4:00pm
  • Fri 9:00am - 3:00pm
  • Sat Closed
  • Sun Closed

Lower Highland practice
2855 North Speer Blvd, Denver, Colorado 80211
Accepting new clients in-person
Currently Available Times
  • Morning (Before 10am)
  • Daytime (10am - 1pm)
  • Afternoon (1pm - 5pm)
  • Evening (After 5pm)
  • Weekends
Regular Hours
  • Mon 9:00am - 4:00pm
  • Tue 9:00am - 4:00pm
  • Wed 9:00am - 4:00pm
  • Thu 9:00am - 4:00pm
  • Fri 9:00am - 3:00pm
  • Sat Closed
  • Sun Closed

Work and Education

Years of Experience: 4 years

Private Practice, MFTC, LPCC, EMDR, CH, 2020 - Present
People House, Counseling Program, 2019 - 2020

International Hypnosis Foundation, and the International NLP Association, Certified Hypnotist, 2021
Institute of Creative Mindfulness, EMDR, 2021


Colorado: 0014108

Colorado: 0018076




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