Margey  DeCuir

Margey DeCuir


Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology, MA Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT Specialties Insurance & Fees Locations
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DeCuir Somatics, Supervised by Myles Downes, LMFT Accepting In-person

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Updated January 22, 2024

Specialties & Expertise

  • Nonmonogamy, polyamory, and kink
  • Somatic Psychotherapy
  • Couples counseling
  • LGBTQIA, gender, & sexuality topics
  • Gender identity & transgender health
  • Adolescent mental health

Professional statement

Margey DeCuir is an Associate Somatic Marriage and Family Therapist working in San Francisco, and online in the greater Bay Area. Margey works dynamically with clients, with a driving passion for social justice and the liberation of all bodies. Founded in Body Psychotherapy of the Reichian tradition, Margey's practice centers on self-acceptance and body-mind integration to allow a fluid experience of oneself. Margey bespokenly integrates multiple therapeutic approaches including Hakomi, Kelemen, Relational, Intersubjective, Somatic, and mindfulness approaches to psychotherapy.

Identifying as an active member of the Queer, Kink/BDSM, and ethically non-monogamous communities, Margey is proud to serve folx identifying with diverse sexual and gender identities. Margey prides herself on holding a safe space for LGBTQIA+ and all people to explore and better understand themselves as sexual human beings. Whether you are navigating your sexual orientation, relationship dynamics, or personal fetish, Margey has expertise in normalizing and supporting your exploration of non-monogamy, alternative relationships, queer identities, and BDSM/Kink interests.

Message to clients

Fundamentally, I believe that my clients hold the expertise and wisdom required to enable their healing. As a clinician, I aim to maintain a safe, nonjudgmental container that allows a greater knowing and acceptance of yourself. We will work together, utilizing collaborative dialogue and integrative body-mind explorations to reveal and nurture those tender parts longing to be seen and heard. Beginning Somatic Therapy is taking a step toward yourself. Therapy is a choice for you, and only you, to make time for self-reflection, intentional connection, and body-mind integration and healing. The goal of therapy is not to be ‘fixed’ or to change who you are but to come to know yourself as you would a dear friend. Together we will explore, discover, and come to love your unique genius.

If you feel ready, reach out today for a free 20-minute consultation.


Nonmonogamy, polyamory, and kink - Exploring one’s values in and beliefs about relationships; practicing boundary-setting, building effective communication skills, conflict resolution, and romantic or sexual relationship bonding with partners

Somatic Psychotherapy - Somatic therapy is a body-based approach to supporting mental health and better understanding our emotions and they show up in our lives. The body is a great source of information as well as a resource we can learn to use to decrease anxiety and increase trauma resiliency

Couples counseling - Addressing relationship challenges and life transitions; strengthening communication and feelings of security, desire, connection, and love. Improving sexual satisfaction and connectedness.

LGBTQIA, gender, & sexuality topics - Exploring topics of sexuality, gender, and identity; coping with discrimination and oppression; navigating relationship, family, and cultural challenges, affirming personal identity and supporting a resourced-based foundation to facing societal hardships.

Gender identity & transgender health - Exploring and affirming gender identity, including trans, non-binary, and gender variant identities; support throughout the process of transition; support communicating with family members and loved ones.

Adolescent mental health - Working with adolescents, teenagers, and parents on social, academic, and/or emotional challenges throughout teenage years; addressing anxiety, family conflicts, peer relationships, school stress, transition to college, social media pressures, self-esteem, hopelessness about the future, emotional disregulation


  • Adults (24+)
  • Couples
  • Parents
  • Teenagers (13-18)
  • Young adults (18-24)


Margey DeCuir is not in-network with any insurances.

Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Individual sessions: $180 (50min)
  • Couples sessions: $220 (50min)
  • Family sessions: $220 (50min)
  • Phone Consultation: $0 (20min)

Additional session information

Out-of-network billing options

This provider can support you in getting reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network reimbursement. Here are the out-of-network billing options they provide:

  • Super billing
Payment options
  • Cash
  • Check
  • Credit Card
  • Debit Card
Session frequency

Frequency of sessions this provider offers to see clients once you are an established client.

  • Weekly
  • Monthly
  • Every other week
  • As needed


Online Sessions (California)
Accepting new clients with a 2 - 3 week wait online
Currently Available Times
  • Morning (Before 10am)
  • Daytime (10am - 1pm)
  • Afternoon (1pm - 5pm)
  • Evening (After 5pm)
  • Weekends
Regular Hours
  • Mon 10am - 3pm
  • Tue 10am - 7pm
  • Wed 10am - 2pm
  • Thu Closed
  • Fri Closed
  • Sat Closed
  • Sun Closed

DeCuir Somatics, Supervised by Myles Downes, LMFT practice
3646 24th St, San Francisco, California 94110
Accepting new clients in-person
Currently Available Times
  • Morning (Before 10am)
  • Daytime (10am - 1pm)
  • Afternoon (1pm - 5pm)
  • Evening (After 5pm)
  • Weekends
Regular Hours
  • Mon Closed
  • Tue 10am - 7pm
  • Wed 10am - 2pm
  • Thu Closed
  • Fri Closed
  • Sat Closed
  • Sun Closed

Work and Education

Years of Experience: 3 years

Myles Downes, Associate Somatic MFT, 2021 - Present
Edgewood Center For Families and Children, Crisis Stabilization Clinician, 2022 - Present
Center For Somatic Psychotherapy, Somatic MFT Trainee, 2020 - 2021

California Institute of Integral Studies, M.A. in Counseling Psychology with a focus in Somatic Psychology, 2021
San Francisco State University , B.A. in Psychology and Communication Studies, 2009


California: 126685